Presence Over Presents

Making Memories That Last (With a Side of Snags)

Article by Samantha and Terry (Life Coaches from Cuppa Strange)

Christmas in Australia is less about snowflakes and roaring fires and more about sunscreen, backyard barbecues, and keeping the flies off your pavlova. But one thing remains universal: the joy of giving.

The question is, are we focusing too much on the giving of things and not enough on the giving of ourselves? Because let’s face it, kids will remember water fights and burnt sausages on the barbie long after they’ve forgotten what was inside that big shiny box.

Why Presence Beats Presents

Here’s the thing—kids don’t measure love by the size of the pile under the tree. They remember how you showed up: the backyard cricket games, the goofy dad jokes, and the way you danced like no one was watching when their favourite song came on.

These moments don’t just stick with your kids—they echo across generations. Every time you prioritize connection over consumption, you’re showing your family what truly matters.

How to Be Present This Christmas

1. Turn Traditions Into Adventures

Forget perfection—this is Australia. Start a new family tradition that suits the season. It could be a Christmas Day beach trip, a backyard barbecue cook-off, or turning your backyard into a water park with a sprinkler and a bit of creativity.

2. Laugh at the Chaos

Burnt sausages? A cricket ball through the window? Forgetting the potato salad in the fridge? These moments are pure gold. They’re what your family will laugh about for years to come.

3. Focus on Giving Experiences, Not Just Stuff

Instead of more toys destined for the bottom of the toy box, think about gifts that create memories—like a day at the zoo, a DIY gardening kit, or teaching your kids to make their favorite Aussie treats.

The Secret Sauce: Living Abundantly

Here’s the kicker: you don’t need to choose between being present and giving generously. Abundance is about so much more than money—it’s about time, love, and the ability to live the life you want.

That’s what Samantha and I love helping families discover. Because when you focus on creating a life of abundance—not just in wealth, but in connection—you find there’s plenty of room for both.

This Christmas, don’t just aim for a picture-perfect day (although we hope your pav is flawless). Focus on what truly matters: being present, sharing laughter, and making memories your kids will carry with them forever.

And if you’re ready to create a life where abundance in all forms flows freely, we’re here to guide you. Because there’s no better gift than a life well-lived—and a backyard barbecue with your loved ones.

Meet Sam and Terry, Life Coaches From Cuppa Strange

We’re Terry and Samantha, founders of Cuppastrange, where we help families create a life filled with purpose, connection, and abundance. Want to learn how? Let’s chat: https://linktr.ee/Cuppastrange.